By: Sunny Aaron
It should go without saying that it’s hard to bear for anyone who has to watch their relatives or loved ones grow old and develop difficulties. And these difficulties could range from minor health problems to significant, life-threatening concerns. But if you want to help your loved ones cope with aging, thankfully there are many things you can do.
We never know how difficult it is to enter old age until it happens to us. Though we’ve all reached milestones in age, and each one is unique, the difficulties that come with aging are as varied as people themselves.
For example, your loved one could develop a problem with gambling, or become seriously ill. Or he or she may get a “second wind” and go off and attempt to summit Mt. Everest. But no matter what your loved one is dealing with, there are ways to help.
In the following, we’ll discuss a few options for helping your loved one to cope with aging.
Offering Activities
It’s often said that it’s hard to teach an old dog new tricks. But when you reach retirement age, learning new things isn’t off the table. In fact, learning new things and engaging in new activities can potentially give your loved one new zest for life.
For example, it’s a known fact that a sedentary lifestyle leads to health problems. As such, the more active you are the better off your health will likely be. Additionally, there are many activities that seniors can engage in that will be helpful during retirement.
A few activities to consider are as follows:
● Local volunteering
● Parties and social gatherings
● Arts and crafts
● Active learning activities
● Gardening
● Hiking
● Traveling
● Fishing
Activities help to stimulate the mind and to engage with life. And though your aging loved one may prefer to sit on the couch all day and watch daytime soap operas, this type of lifestyle isn’t conducive to proper health. As such, enticing them into doing any activity can be quite beneficial.
Living Arrangements
If your loved one has lived on his or her own for many years, they may want to continue doing so. However, it needs to be made clear that safety and comfort are a primary concern. And if your loved one has been developing health problems or other complications, alternative living arrangements may need to be discussed.
Living with Family
If you have the means to care for your loved one, and everyone living in the home is comfortable with having your loved one move in with you, this is definitely an option to be considered.
However, you also have to keep in mind that if your loved one requires supervision or medical care, you may also want to bring on the assistance of an at-home nurse, or the help of a hospice service.
Nursing Homes
Let’s face it, not many people want to end up in a nursing home. But you never know what life will throw at you as you age. And sometimes a nursing home is the only option for an aging loved one who can no longer care for him or herself.
Before electing to place your loved one in a nursing home, you’ll want to ensure that the facility is adequate for the care of your loved one. And this is because many nursing homes have been scrutinized by advocacy groups for subpar living standards.
Companionship
It’s hard to go through life completely alone. And though some of us may prefer to be single in our youth, humans are social creatures by nature. In fact, it’s been shown through many medical studies that prolonged isolation can lead to mental health issues such as depression.
If your loved one is having trouble coping with aging, companionship may actually be a solution. And this doesn’t have to be of the romantic sort. Even platonic relationships can be beneficial during your golden years.
And if companionship is simply not an option that your loved one wants to consider, having frequent interactions with others of the same age group, or with friends and family can work wonders for those who may feel alone during their golden years.
If we’re lucky enough to make it to retirement age, we might find that we’re entering an entirely different phase in our lives. And you never know how well you’re able to cope with aging until it happens. Regardless, making your loved one feel as comfortable, useful, and as safe as possible is the main priority.
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