By Dr. Bharti Raizada
Sexual violence is widely prevalent and is a real issue.
Sexual violence and associated trauma can range from minor to major.
As per CDC (Center for Disease Control and Prevention), one in every 3 women and one in every 6 men have experienced sexual violence in the form of physical contact.
Many incidents are unreported.
Following statement is from an article, by Brendan Murphy, in AMA wire,
"Nearly, 15% of medical students- 1 in 7-have reported being subjected to offensive sexist remarks or names, while 4% reported being the victim of unwanted sexual harassment, according to data from the 2017 association of American Medical Colleges' of Graduation questionnaire."
The hushed whispers are getting louder. Flickr
Who is the victim?
Anyone can be a victim and it can occur at any age- in childhood, in youth or in old age. Victim can be a working woman, homemaker, women in power, or student. It happens in rich families and poor families, in developing countries and developed countries, in joint families and nuclear families, basically everywhere. Boys/males can also be victims.
Who is the Culprit?
These people may have a double personality- one for victims and one for everyone else. They may be well respected in family, community, and society.
Why many victims do not speak at the time of the incident?
#MeToo movement is a movement against sexual harassment and sexual assault. #MeToo spread virally in October 2017. Flickr
Effects on victim
What are the options?
Do not accept that it is a norm and do not keep tolerating. Flickr
What not to do-
What is not #metoo:
If someone is telling you to do proper work at workplace.
Someone is harassing you in a way that is not sexual in nature.
Someone is unfair at work.
Consensual sexual act.
Guessing that x person has done it.
Anyone can be a victim and it can occur at any age. Flickr
The result of this movement
There are real victims and there are opportunists.
Men are fearing women and are avoiding contact with them. There are talks about consent forms. Should men carry the consent forms with them all the time and get one signed by a girl before any little thing or interaction with females. Men are scared and nervous. They may not like to work with females or guide them or mentor them or hire them out of fear.
What needs to stop
Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) politician M.J. Akbar takes the oath during the swearing-in ceremony of new ministers, July 5, 2017, at the Presidential Palace in New Delhi. The Indian minister and veteran newspaper editor announced his resignation, Oct. 17, 2018, while still insisting that the accusations of sexual harassment are false. VOA
Some Shows and Reads based on this issue-
Movie—Monsoon wedding ( family member is influential, well respected and is child predator).
One episode of Satyamev Jayate on child sexual abuse.
Allegations against Dr. Robicheaux, and Ms. Riley and Dr. Larry Nassar. (People in power and at the workplace).
Allegations against Nana Pateker and Alok Nath (Famous People)
Movie I am- based on Male child sexual abuse by a family member
Dr. Bharti Raizada is a Chicago based anesthesiologist